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The return of Yolei

Once upon a time, yours truly was a musician. I played in several bands and it was a lot of fun. Hard work, but fun. This image is with the SSAB company band. 

Most gigs were great. And, you spend so much time with the people you play with, they become family.

There were some places I swore I'd never go near again. There were a few gigs where drunks started to fight, one event where a guy stabbed another, and two or three times when people fell into the PA speakers, tipping the whole thing over me.

Common for all of them, the good and the bad, was my red bass. Her name is Yolei - after a character in Digimon. It was a long time ago, lol.

When I moved to the USA, I couldn't bring all my stuff with me. At the same time, my first husband wanted to keep the house, but wasn't able to buy me out. This seemed like a golden opportunity to solve two problems at once: we wrote a contract where the house would be considered his, he would pay for all costs associated with it, and in r…

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